There are So. Many. Choices.

Choosing homeschool curriculum reminds me of the toothpaste aisle. There was Crest, Colgate, or Pepsodent, and now a shopper has to decide on flavors, sparkles, gel or paste, whitening, brightening, tartar control, sensitivity reduction, gingivitis healing, or some combination thereof. It’s a little mind boggling.

The choices for curriculum grew pretty quickly… when our oldest daughter was four, and we were just beginning to maybe possibly think about homeschooling, I found the number for a major Christian curriculum supplier, and called for a catalog. They only sold to Christian schools at that point, and suggested that I try to order through a school. About three years later, they had booths at homeschool conventions, and did regular “hotel shows” for homeschooling families. There were only a few books about “how to homeschool” out there, and most families we knew used traditional textbooks (published by three companies), worktexts (published by three companies), or they did unit studies. There was only one major unit study publisher back then… or you could plan your own  if you were really brave. Unschooling was an option too, but I never met anyone THAT brave.

And there was no Internet.

As in, “you had to find a phone number or address and request a catalog and wait for it to come to your mailbox at the end of your driveway” no Internet.

(Did I just type that?)

I’m definitely oversimplifying a bit, but choosing curriculum in 1993
and choosing curriculum in 2018 is big time different.

Especially for the preschool years.

Homeschooling the preschool years wasn’t really a thing. Your kids either went to preschool or they didn’t. I think the major Christian school curriculum publishers may have offered preschool programs, but they wouldn’t send me a catalog. And, many homeschool families fell into the Better Late Than Early camp, and felt formal lessons weren’t necessarys during the preschool years. Since we weren’t really sure about homeschooling at that point, and since I had kids that loved doing “school,” I finally found an inexpensive curriculum that used library books. We did it lightly during our oldest daughter’s last year at home (before kindergarten), and then used it with little sister while she was in kindergarten.

When I go curriculum shopping now, I sometimes feel like I’m trying to pick out that perfect tube of toothpaste. But I’m also so excited to see all the possibilities. There is so much good stuff out there, no matter if you lean toward teaching them early or late. Or if visual, auditory, or kinesthestic materials work best for your preschoolers. Or if they like snuggling up on the couch with a good book or playing phonics games on the iPad. Or if you have a kid that loves workbooks or one that would rather spend his days feeling mud squish between his toes.

Or any combination thereof.

 

Does anybody remember that song that Barbara Mandrell sang called  “I Was Country When Country Wasn’t Cool?”

Google tells me that song came out in 1981, which means I am totally dating myself in this blog post. But that’s kind of the point, I guess? We’re a homeschooling family, and when I think of how long we’ve homeschooled, that song comes to mind, because homeschooling was definitely not “cool” yet!

We officially began homeschooling in 1993. We had met a couple of families by calling people that we heard might know something about homeschooling, but didn’t know anyone personally that actually homeschooled. (Amazingly enough, another family at our church made the decision to begin homeschooling at the same time we did… Neither of us knew the other was considering it!) When we told people we were going to homeschool, the first question was “is that legal?”

It was.

And the second was “Why?”

The reasons that we began this journey?

Early seeds were planted… I believe the Lord had prepared my heart to homeschool our children from the time I was a little girl. I had a love for learning, a passion for great books, a desire to teach, and parents that encouraged my brother and I to try new things and to learn on our own and bought encyclopedias so we could do just that.

Glimpses of alternate forms of education…My brother went to Christian school in his high school years. Self-study and a little bit of tutoring helped me catch up in school after several months of illness when I was in 11th grade. A college Educational Philosophy class I took explored alternative methods of teaching. Hubby and I visited a church that had a parent-taught school. And I saw a book about homeschooling in a bookstore that intrigued me but also made me wonder “Who in the world would actually do that?”

Turns out we would.

Kids that would thrive in a different educational setting… We had one kid who was reading fluently at four and also had severe motion sickness that gained her a special seat and her own personal trash can on the kindergarten bus. And another kid that Could.Not.Sit.Still. and probably would have had a label stamped on her forehead before the first week of school was over. And they both loved to “play school” with their mom who had never outgrown playing school herself.

And most important…

A desire for a Christian education for our children… Hubby and I were serious about raising our girls to know and love the Lord and His Word, and we believed Deuteronomy Chapter 6 gave a clear picture of how we should do that. Christian school was one possibility, but the closest one was about 45 minutes away. (Remember how I mentioned the kid that threw up in cars early in the morning? Yeah.) And there was no way we could afford two kids in private school.

So… after a trial year in public school kindergarten, we took the plunge, ordered a box full of curriculum, made sure we were “legal,” and told our friends and family about our decision. Somehow they didn’t think we were totally crazy. Or if they did, they didn’t say so. And we committed to the long haul… our plans from the beginning was to see it through to the end.

These girls graduated from homeschool in 2005 and 2007,
and now have sweet families of their own!

We’ve been blessed with the incredible chance to do this whole thing over! Twenty-five years after we officially began, we’re beginning again, this time with boys! I’m over-the-moon excited to try new curriculum, re-do some of our absolute favorite homeschool curricula, and experience the difference between homeschooling then and homeschooling now!

I can’t wait to share this experience here with these two fellas!

(And I also can’t wait to be able to show the
sweet face hiding behind that red heart!!)